Femdom Humiliation and Femdom Humiliation Stories

Femdom humiliation, or female domination humiliation, means the use of humiliation as a sexual tool that is agreed upon by both partners, where the female humiliates and the male gains sexual enjoyment from the process of being embarrassed and treated in a demeaning manner.

Humiliation in femdom can take on many different forms, including physical humiliation or verbal humiliation.

If you want to verbally humiliate a submissive, call him pet, boy, slave, bitch, tart, slut, fag, whore, or some other humiliating nickname. You can also insult him with verbal abuse such as telling him he’s ugly, worthless, fat or stupid.

You can also humiliate him by making fun of his body or personality. Criticizing his genitals, ass, face or size or making fun of his walk, voice, or hygiene are all methods of verbal humiliation.

Force him to ask your permission to do things he has to do on a normal basis, like going to the bathroom, spending money or eating and drinking.

Mock his penis and tell him it’s undersized and unable to please you. Ridicule and mock him in every way you can imagine.

Physical ways to humiliate the male submissive include urinating or defecating on his body or face, forcing him to perform menial tasks like housework, generating rules that he must follow like lighting your cigarette, walking behind you, speaking only when you allow him to, making him kneel, making him eat after you, making him sleep on the floor, etc.

Clothing can also be a form of humiliation, including making him cross dress, forcing him to wear a costume, or making him wear sexual garments such as chastity belts. You can also make him wear a sign of your ownership such as a dog collar, or treat him as a sexual object.

Most sexual humiliation in the context of femdom does not involve actual pain, but is more concerned with making the submissive male the object of ridicule and shame.

One of the lesser-known BDSM practices is the idea of using your slave as a human toilet, i.e. urinating or defecating on him in order to humiliate him. This is frequently done in his mouth or on his face. Consumption of feces or urine sometimes occurs, although you need to be aware of the health risks involved.

Feces is made up of the following: 75% is water, and of the remaining 25%, 1/3 of it is dead bacteria, and another third is undigested food products. There can certainly be live bacteria in feces that will pose a risk to both parties, however.

Although psychology recognizes the existence of urine and feces fetishes (the former is known as urophilia, undinism or urolagnia, while the latter is called coprophilia), there is no real answer as to what causes them.

In the femdom world, a urine fetish is known as watersports, and the main purpose of it is humiliating the slave. Pressuring him to consume your urine is another method of asserting your dominance over him.

In femdom, a feces fetish is known as scat play. A very few couples also practice coprophagia, which means eating feces. This activity is physically dangerous because of the possibility of getting a serious infection from live bacteria. Eating your own feces is safer than eating a partner’s feces, but it is still dangerous. Ingesting feces can lead to such health problems as parasitic infections like amebiasis, campylobater, cryptosporidiosis, giardiasis, and higellosis, or even viral hepatitis. If your immune system is compromised, scat play should be avoided as much as possible because it can be seriously harmful to your health.

There are porn videos available that illustrate watersports or scat play, and this may be a safer way of indulging in the practice.

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If you’re thinking about engaging a professional mistress’s services, first you must ask yourself what you hope to get out of the experience. If you’re just looking to be dominated, that’s one thing, but if you’re also hoping for sex, you need to keep in mind that sex for money is prostitution, which is illegal almost everywhere.

However, if you want to be tied up, shocked, suspended, encased, lashed, or humiliated, or if you want to have a role-playing session or pretend to be a baby, you should write down all of your desires for easier communication.
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Also make a list of your fetishes, such as redheads, stiletto heels, PVC or leather, and fantasies such as doctors, schoolmarms or prison guards. It’s helpful to write down what’s a must for you, what you can do without, and what you absolutely do not want.

When you’re planning this adventure you have to keep in mind how much experience you have as well. Be honest with your mistress. If it’s your first time, pick a mistress with a good reputation who can calm down newbies, provide references and possible has reviews on her site from clients.

Be specific with her about your experience. If you’re experienced in BDSM in general but are trying some new facet of it out, explain that to her clearly as well.

It’s especially important to put down your boundaries—the things you absolutely want to avoid. For example, if marks or bruises will cause you trouble at work or at home, you have to tell the mistress this. Also, if you bruise easily or have medical problems that might impinge on your session, she needs to know this as well.

It’s likely that she’ll ask you to fill out a medical form that will ask you to give details on your sexual life, health in general and psychological well being. She may ask you if you have arthritis, asthma, panic attacks, replacement joints or metal implants, heart problems, a pacemaker, diabetes, epilepsy or cancer. She’ll also want to know what medications you’re on and if you have any phobias or allergies. These things don’t mean you can’t have a great femdom experience, it just means that your mistress needs to plan around them. The most important things to notify her of are asthma, diabetes or severe allergies that require epi-pens.

When choosing a mistress, keep in mind what your desires are regarding looks, temperament, voice and costume. You can find many different styles of dominatrixes, from mother-like figures to intimidating warriors. Her age, her experience level and the areas she specializes in will also help you make your choice.

Factor in cost as well by deciding how much you’re willing to spend, including travel to and from her place of business, club membership fees if necessary, and whether or not you need to rent a room if she doesn’t include it in the price.

Decide if you want to be nearby to cut down on travel costs or want to be far away to avoid being seen. If you’re driving, you need to inquire about parking, and if you’re taking public transportation, you’ll have to see how far away that is as well.

Use these tips for picking out a professional mistress and you’re guaranteed of having a satisfying session and enjoying yourself.

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Women in Power

Women are in power in politics all over the world today, although some countries like the US still have a way to go in terms of female supremacy, since we’ve yet to elect a female president. Following are some facts on women in leadership around the world.

Countries with Women Leaders

It can be hard to compile a list of nations with female leaders because different countries use different titles for them. The United Kingdom, Denmark and the Netherlands are three countries who currently have ruling queens (the only possible route for women to reign over nations in ancient times), but while these queens are revered by their people, they’re more symbolic than anything in modern times.

However, if you’re looking for women in real leadership roles, eight countries in the world currently are ruled by female presidents: India, Argentina, Chile, Ireland, the Phillippines, Finland, Liberia and San Marino.

An additional nine countries currently have female prime ministers. Germany, Israel, Haiti, the Ukraine, Moldova, the Netherlands Antilles, Mozambique, and the Åland Islands all have women at their head, and Iceland recently appointed Johanna Sigurdardottir as their new prime minister after their government collapsed in January 2009.

A Modern History of Women in Government

The first women serving in government in modern times occurred after World War I when women became ministers of revolutionary governments in Ireland, Hungary, Russia and the Ukraine. The first woman ever to be elected minister in a democratic parliamentary-style government was Nina Bang, the Danish Minister of Education, who served from 1924-1926.

These women all served in positions that were similar to cabinet positions, however. To find true female supremacy you have to fast-forward to 1960, when Sri Lanka elected the worlds’ first female Premier Minister (Sirivamo Bandaranaike). The first woman to carry the title president was Isabel Perón, who was the wife of the sitting president of Argentina and was appointed when he died. (This is still a legitimate route to the position today.)

More Statistics about Women in Power

The US is lagging behind the rest of the world in female supremacy in some ways. Women have made great strides in other areas. According to the United Nations, there are more women holding positions of power in the government today than ever before. Still, the rate is only 18.4%, so there’s room for improvement.

Two countries to be commended are Finland, where 60% of people holding government positions are women, and Sweden, which became the first country to have more female ministers than men in 1999.

Special mention must be made of Rwanda, which is the first country in the world to have a majority of women in their parliament (56%, including the speaker). One third of the cabinet positions are also held by women in Rwanda, including Supreme Court chief, education minister, foreign minister and police commissioner general.

In fact, there are only two countries in the world who have never had a woman in government on the sub-minister level or higher: Saudi Arabia and Monaco.

Establishing a female dominated relationship.

Many men entertain fantasies of adopting a submissive stance visavi their partners. Some keep this desire hidden all their lives, but some manage to incorporate this submissive attitude into their relationships. If your spouse or partner has asked you to adopt a dominant attitude towards him. This text might give you some ideas as to how to establish your dominance

Breaking down the defences.

First thing to do is to examine your partner’s motivation behind the desire to be submissive. Is this something new or has he harboured these ideas for a long time ? Does he have a genuine wish to submit or does he see this simply as a sexual thrill ? A thorough interrogation is in order. A man is more prone to opening his heart to you when denied the comforts of clothing and physical stature. You could for example try stripping him naked in a cold room and make him answer your questions, him lying naked on the floor while you sit fully clothed on his chest.

His fantasy and the reality

You will want to have a clear idea of what you want from a submissive husband. If you desire an obedient man that does the housework while he desires a fetish queen to give him golden showers then you have to inform him about the realities of life. If he wants to coerce you into accepting his vision of the whole thing, then he has misunderstood femdom alltogether. You need to make him realize what you want out of this. Establish a set of rules and set the punishments for breaking them. Put it all down on paper, but make sure he memorizes it all the same.

Basic conditioning

Men these days are filled with an inflated sense of self-worth. This manifests itself in a number of ways. He might always be walking a few steps ahead of his partner, trying to increase her pace. He might be acting callous to her, he might be leaving his junk laying around the house. If you want to establish a female dominated relationship, then this is not something you can put up with. Whenever you see any signs of bad behaviour from him, he has to be told off instantly. Just as dogs are successfully dominated verbally, men can be handled much the same way. Use a sharp pitch of voice to scold him. You can combine it with some quick and sharp pain to make him pay attention. Pull his hair or put your nails into his wrist ,that will make him listen. And if he takes offence to this, he might not be into this female dominance thing as much as he has expressed, or he might just need more discipline !

Punishing your partner

A well behaved and obedient partner is a direct result of constant vigilance from the wife. Domestic discipline is not an on / off thing that can be tightened and relaxed at will. Adherence to the rules must be observed by the submissive partner at all times. Violations against the rules must be dealt with efficiently and without delay. Here is where the punishment comes in. This punishment can take many forms, psychological, physical, or even as one bdsm couple reported, monetary. Punishment should always be given with love, never anger, and should never leave permanent marks on the body or the psyche.

The tools of physical punishment

Most households are full of useful tools to be used to administer physical pain to your partner. Anything from a hairbrush to a flip-flop sandal can be used to spank your subbie. And if you don’t find the perfect tool in your home, you will find hundreds of instruments of pain in your nearest general store. A simple riding whip and a leather paddle can be found for a couple of dollars / euro on ebay, and they are usually sturdy enough for many hours of chastisement. But even a full assortment of a varied selection of professional spanking tools will not cost you much. A riding whip, a couple of leather paddles, a tawse and a couple of cat-o-nine tails are inexpensive to purchase and are sufficient to administer a wide variety of discomfort for your partner.

The method of physical punishment

The basic over-the-knee or OTK spanking is usually enough to discipline and focus the thoughts of an ill behaved and absent minded submissive husband, especially if he has previous childhood spanking experience. Start off with sitting down on a straight backed chair or a stool. Make sure that it is the right height for the job. If you are right handed, make the person that you are about to spank stand on your right side. A bare buttock spanking is more or less the norm, so if the spankee is wearing clothes or underwear, now, and not later,  is the time to pull them down or remove them alltogether. To make the spankee assume the spanking position in your lap, it is very wise to have worked out a short verbal or visual signal beforehand. At this signal, a well trained husband should bend over your lap eagerly and without hesitation. Now the spanking commences and does not finish until the submissive man fully understands the disciplinary purpose of the spanking and my irritation about his behaviour disappears. The exact technique and tools used are something that you will have to develop individually. Personally I find it very useful to set goals and quotas for my subbie friends. Make them submit to what seems like a very high number of strokes and slaps. I reward them for reaching the goals and punish them for failing. The actual spanking i usually start off with small strokes with my palm or with a small leather strap, followed by tenderizing of the buttocks using my long nails. A more thorough paddling comes after that. Tender skinned subbies usually start squirming during the first stage, which irritates me. One way to make a squirming spankee keep still is by making him stand on his toes, arched over your lap, with his fingertips on the floor on the other side of the chair.

Medical aspects

Even though it’s safe to administer reasonably strong strokes and lashes to the buttocks of a subbie, remember that the recipient of a whipping usually has a hard time staying motionless during the punishment. Do take care not to spank the subbie over the tailbone, kidneys or genitals, since this might be dangerous.

The afterplay

The moments after the spanking is finished are precious moments. The bad behaviour of the subbie that led to the spanking has now been atoned for, and hopefully, both the dominant woman and the submissive man are now at ease and relaxed. It is very benificial for the domestic training to keep a high level of seriousness after the spanking has ended. In my own household, my submissive partners know that after the spanking it is time for him to do something nice for me. This could be anything from giving me a back-rub to cooking a nice meal.

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The writer is an unnamed lifestyle dominatrix

Just had to share this gallery of the tall goddess: femdom icon Stella Van Gent treats a man like human furniture, before he has to get down on all fours, bark like a dog and do some serious licking of the domina Van Gent ’s heel. The red and black longline corset in pvc is great. The pointy stiletto-heeled patent leather boots are fabulous. The other domina also looks deadly in her latex pants, latex short sleeved top and latex corset. More pictures of Stella Van Gent and friends can be found here.

Long legged air hostess European uberbabe Stella Van Gent recently did a photoshoot posing as an equestrian domina. To be absolutely frank, her thigh-high leather boots with stiletto heels might not be ideal for the stable, but they are very functional when it comes to prodding a ponyboy or a ponygirl into instant submission.  As usual with the lovely Stella, her tight breeches and white blouse are classy and well fitting, a fetishists dream. If you would like to see more of this beautiful woman, her site is AVAILABLE HERE.

There is this cool little fetish factory in Germany called Rimo Mode. They’ve been around forever making mainly raincoats and macs for the rainwear fetishist crowd, but now they are broadening their range into items like black governess blouses, wrap skirts and unusual evening wear like the silver outfit you see can see in the image. There does not seem to be any outfits for subs on the page though. It’s strictly classy rainwear fetish and empowering domina wear. They seem to be succesful at what they do, their designs look fantastic and the prices are somewhat high. The stern looking lady in the image above, Frau Ritter, seems to be the proprietor of the operation and she can be further admired on the Rimo Mode site. They are a crossdresser friendly and they have a real life physical shop open for those that happen to pass by the city of Solingen in Germany. Here’s the link to the Rimo Mode WEBSITE.

These are two angry women that one would not want offend. Masuimi Max and her femdom associate Emily Marilyn look like they give no mercy. Masuimi Max’s attitude in this picture is mesmerizing, erotic and exotic as usual. Emily Marilyn looks her usual cool self. The fact that both models are showing pussyhair is unusual. Would love to see more of this picture series. I’ll post it if I find more on Flickr.